Love Yourself Enough to Change

We often talk about what we wish we could have for ourselves,  yet we don’t realize that we (or rather our fear) is often in the way.  We don’t allow the good, for valid reasons we hold.  But today, I want you just to take a moment and…

Allow yourself to have good things come to you. Even though deep down you may be worried you aren’t quite ready for them. Just swing open the door and you will just scurry to make it all happen in due time. Not opening the door keeps the possibility out.

Allow Yourself to Deserve. Because you already do. We all do. You deserve to be peaceful, happy, proud of yourself, motivated and to feel needed. You also deserve success and all the freedom it brings.

Allow Yourself to Let go. In today’s podcast episode, we explore the concept of letting go of fear-based obstacles…often grieving through them and normalizing them, such as doubt, perfectionism and wanting control of the outcomes so we can feel ok.

Ok, so here’s the thing. You can’t have both. You either stay comfortable in your box that limits you, creates anxiety and depression, or you focus on ways to climb out of the box and choose to live. Here are some ways to do that..

Focus instead on your heart’s desire. What you deep down love, would love to try, create, and do. What you are secretly passionate about. Stay there. Marinate in it. Feel feelings. Make a vision board. Speak it into existence! As you do this your subconscious begins to believe it’s so possible it’s as if you’re already doing it.

Be Open to the Possibilities that may lie outside of your focus.   The best things often happen when we are planning something else. There may be a plot twist you didn’t see coming, and as long as it is in alignment with your dream go with it. That’s because it’s often the wonderful detours that enrich us, open us up to even more possibilities, and bring us to our true purpose.

So love yourself enough to dream today, to focus on what you want, practice being open, and see what transforms you!